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The Good Ole Days…

They were the good ole days… filled with many blog posts, pontifications, and inspiring situations.  I think the only thing that has changed for the recent season I am in is the blog.  I still haven’t figured out what I want to do with it.  I have never wanted it to be a mirror to other sites, simply posting or re-posting good thoughts (though I love to point people in good directions).  I have also never wanted it to be a place where I share my expertise, of which I’m not sure I have any.  And this really isn’t a place where I want to share announcements, commercials, updates, etc via the ministry where God has me.

I am in a quandary trying to figure out which steps to take, if any.  This past year has been one of the busiest years in ministry I have had.  In fact, I have had to cut out some of the things I enjoy most (like traveling and speaking) in order to not be too overwhelmed.  So, here is too good intentions.  Here is to hopes that this spot may be inspiration for someone and cathartic for the author.  When I needed an outlet before, I found one online – maybe that will happen again.

A Little More About Me

There are a few things you may not know about me.  I thought I’d share a few.

  • I own every Bond movie made – even the ones not a part of the official canon.  (and yes, even the Pierce Brosnan ones)  Somehow, I still find them difficult to turn off if they are on tv.
  • I enjoy reading, but don’t get to do it enough.
  • If I had to choose between the beach or the mountains, I’d choose the beach every time.  Or I’d visit California and take both!
  • I love to travel… a lot.
  • The greatest love of my life is my relationship with my Savior.
  • One of my favorite things in the world is hearing my son scream “daddy” when I come home.
  • I always wanted a pet turtle growing up.  As a seminary student I got one — it’s not all the glitz and glamour one might think.
  • One of the items on my bucket list is to shoot a .50 caliber (preferably a Barrett sniper rifle) off of a helicopter.  I have done neither separately.
  • I married WAY up!
  • I started working on a book about a year ago.  I need to pick it back up, but I had the best title.  I called it “touche” since my son’s name is Shay – and it’s kind of a long letter to him about growing up and taking risks.  Now that we are expecting a daughter, I feel bad not putting her name in the title.
  • Nobody will ever  buy my book, but one day I hope to finish it for my own benefit.
  • I plan to get a Doctorate of Ministry one day — once I find a good way to pay for it!
  • I love music too much.  I am convinced God hasn’t given me the talents in music I wish I had because I’d struggle with following my calling if I did.
  • I am a night owl.  I mean, it’s bad.  The thing that stinks is that I am much more efficient and ‘with it’ at night.
  • I wish I was taller sometimes.
  • I really enjoy British humor.
  • If I had one superficial wish to come true, it would be that I could sing.
  • If I had 2, I would also have cool hair.
  • I am an unashamed geek.
  • I talk (and apparently write) entirely too much. I need to work on being a listener.

Wow, that was much more than I intended. I hope it was as fun to read as it was to type.

I love change, but I had transitions.

I’m simply not patient.

In fact, I waited for 23 years and when I got engaged, I was ready to get married and quit waiting — so Mel and I were engaged for 4 months.  Ok, there were other factors, but a lot of it came down to not wanting to sit in a state of transition for a year or more.

The thing is, change is healthy.  I’ve told people that so many times in my life and I live it.  I’m not afraid of change, and in fact embrace it as an expected and welcomed part of life.  The past few months have brought much change, but also a long period of transition. (hence the lack of blogging or much else)

In the past few months my laptop has been in the shop 3 times.  When you’re trying to get stuff done, this is not fun.  My cell phone randomly deletes emails, contacts and even calendar functions… and the battery was lasting only 20 minutes of talk time (until Ray hooked me up)!  Put on top of that I’m commuting 80 minutes each way to work while we are packing our house up and moving to a new one.  Our buyer set our closing date 6 weeks out – which is a long time of transition.  I hate that state of limbo – the part where you’re not fully one place or the other.

Of course we move in a little over 2 weeks and have 2 days to move in before we’re in Barbados on a mission trip.  However, after that – hopefully the dust will settle a bit and we’ll be ready to start our new life in Bogart.

Change happens, so prepare for it – but I never get used to the transitions.

How to sell a house in 2 days

After accepting the call to Prince Avenue in Bogart, Mel and I immediately started the process of selling our home.  We had talked about it before, but selling a home is a first for both of us – so we weren’t sure what to expect.  Another factor in all of this was the current market.  Whenever we told someone we were putting our house up for sale, you could see them wince at the pain.  Many homes have been on the market for a year or more and still haven’t moved.  We were hopeful, but realistic that I might be commuting for a little while.

So, what does any good pastor and professor do?  I researched.  Mel and I both looked into all the things we needed to do.  We have an amazing realtor in Athens who has been a HUGE resource to us in helping us understand what to expect.  We de-cluttered, made sure everything was clean and the paint was all touched up.  My yard is immaculate, like a carpet.  We planted roses.  We were ready to sell this house.

The time came to find a Realtor.  It’s a more difficult decision than you would think – because truthfully they all do pretty much the same thing when they list your house.  I’m not a pro in the market, but at least with the 3 I talked to I am positive we would’ve had the same amount of exposure and marketing with all 3.  It just comes down to a matter of who is a better negotiator/advisor for you when you start getting down to the nitty gritty.  We interviewed 3 Realtors and found that they were very similar in most things, except price.  We wanted to be able to sell, not sit on the market – but we didn’t want to price it too low.  This number does have to be just right.

After much prayer and deliberation, we landed on the third guy we interviewed.  He’s a believer, has his act together, and he’s a younger guy – which I kind of liked.  He also happened to have a buyer looking for a home like ours in the area.  We signed the papers with him to sell the home on a Saturday and that very same day he showed our house!  We left for a quick vacation with Mel’s family, leaving the house as clean and nice as we could.  The buyer who saw it Saturday loved it, came back Monday and put an offer in on Wednesday.  Our house wasn’t officially on the market until Monday night/Tuesday morning and it had already had 2 showings and an offer on the 2nd day!  When we came home from our vacation, our house was already under contract and had even been inspected!

Was it all of the preparation we did to sell our house?  What worked best?  I’m going to be flat honest, God sold our home.  I like our Realtor, he’s a great guy – but God has put this together.  Of course we are only “under contract” at the moment and still have about 6 weeks until closing, but I am confident that God is in this.  All the stuff we did to prepare was our faithfulness in what God has entrusted us with, but God was faithful to us in putting it altogether!

Of course with the market we have lost money on the deal, but realistically speaking we think we sold the house at a fair price (though not the price I would like to have sold at).  However, I am excited to see how the other end of this story plays out.  All glory to God for His mighty works!  He can sell a house in 2 days in this market… that is one mighty God! :)

There’s no formula for you to sell your house in 2 days too… but how mine sold was through much prayer and the power of God!

(If anyone is looking for a good Realtor in Gainesville/Forsyth County or Athens, let me know and I’d be happy to recommend one to you!)

New Phone

I am ready for a new phone.  The Blackberry I’m currently using is 18 months old and it’s on it’s last leg.  It was a nice one when I got it, but it randomly erases contact information and emails… not cool.  However, I have a few months on it before I can upgrade, and double-plus the rumor is that Apple will be releasing a new iPhone in June — so I’ll be holding out for it!

Random facts about me… this is my 3rd smart phone/Blackberry, and my 9th cell phone (and no, I’ve never lost one or had one break). :)

I Need an Assistant

Seriously, I need an assistant. If anyone knows of a qualified individual who works for free, let me know!

On my plate at the moment is:
- Finishing a major writing project contract I have for a youth event.
- Grading 60+ papers and submitting final grades for my class this week.
- Starting communication with two new classes that are just about to start.
- Create a website, contact youth leaders, and develop information for my International Powerplant project this summer.
- Help out at a Disciple Now event at Central Baptist in Warner Robins, GA!
- Enjoy my new blog a little further… ok, obviously not a pressing need, but I have a ton of thoughts that I’d love to have time to post.

And that’s just this week. I wish Weather.com wasn’t telling me that next week was going to be a little chilly, I wouldn’t mind enjoying a little bit of this good weather!

Teenage family

I read this story this morning about a 13-year-old who has just become a father.  The mother is only 15.  At lunch my friend commented on how young the guy looked, but I hadn’t seen the picture so I searched it up.  It is pretty unbelievable, but this sort of things happens all too often.  While he may have a lot of kids beat by a year or two, it is an issue that we need to be aware of.  Students are much more sexually active and curious than we may think.  We have to take extra care in sharing with them proper relationships.  

As a parent, do not shy away from having these talks with your children!  And if your youth pastor/leader does, know that he is not introducing them to a new concept, but hoping to educate and inspire them to healthy relationships and purity.
I also couldn’t help but think about Mary and Jesus.  Many people think that she was 13-15 years-old while she was pregnant with Jesus.  This may give you some perspective on how scary that may have been for her. (though Joseph was not that young)
Photo from thesun.co.uk (a smutty news site in the UK, don’t click on any additional stories)

Faithful in the little things

Before God can use you in the big stuff, you have to be faithful in the little things.  In college it drove me nuts to see people who didn’t even attend church on Sundays and they wanted to be pastors when they graduated.  Sure, we had chapel….

The fact remains, your faithfulness in service, giving, and commitment to a church reflects your personal walk with Christ.  And if you aren’t faithful in your walk with Christ, how can you expect to lead others?

I’m a sucker for free books

I’m a sucker for free books.  In fact, I have a book addiction.  I’ve had to severely cut back on my book purchases in the past year… now if I could only do the same for my music. :)

But here’s an option for a free book by Mark Driscoll called Vintage Church.  Sign up by clicking here.   And please do visit the sponsor of the giveaway
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Highlights from my trip

  • Making all sorts of new friends from across the globe.  It was unreal the type of connections that many of us had at the IWC Coordinators retreat.  It really is a small world.
  • Seeing a few old friends as well. 
  • Watching IMB missionaries go crazy over shopping at Walmart!
  • Getting to meet my Ministry Coordinator for the trip.  He’s a few years younger than me.  I’m used to being the young guy, and every year it will become less and less the case that I am.  I’m excited to work with him.
  • Meeting my Field Rep, who is the missionary on site in country.  I know I have found new friends in he and his wife!  (Plus, they have a son named Patrick who is my age!)
  • Getting on the train at the ATL airport, one guy decided he would try to jump in while the doors were closing.  Those doors don’t re-open like automatic doors at the grocery store.  He got lodged in the door and started freaking out.  It took several men to pry the doors back open so he could hop back out.  We couldn’t stop laughing, does that make me bad? (of course we waited until he was ok before we laughed)
  • I can’t decide if seeing Al Sharpton in the Miami airport is a highlight or not, but it’s definitely noteworthy!
  • Spending 4 days in 80 degree days and 75 degree nights.  Simply awesome.
  • Visiting all the beautiful sites there are to see in Barbados.
  • The food in Barbados is definitely more expensive than back home.  It’s probably about 50% more on average.
  • I had a white snapper with the head still on it.  If it had a few less bones, I would’ve loved it!
  • LLB’s are the best.  It’s kind of like Guarana.  And if none of that made any sense to you, then it’s time you lived a little!
  • I wonder if local Bajans (that’s what we call people that live in Barbados) smirk every time they mention Mt. Gay.  I did.
  • God is at work on the island, however, there is a huge need.  The culture is so condensed, it seems they need a unique perspective.  There’s a LOT of empty tradition there.
  • Spent a little extra time with Bob-o than I usually get.  He is a great friend, definitely someone I can trust.
  • We rode around in a super ghetto old Toyota van that seats 10 people.  The A/C doesn’t work, so we spent a lot of time riding around with the side door open.  We got a few strange looks, but it was great.
  • I am longing for the day when I can take the doors and top back off of the Jeep.
  • Seriously, I’m so glad to have met Rick and Cindy.  They are great people with great hearts!
  • My friend John let me use is 100-400mm Canon lens, and that thing was smokin’!  I have to get me one of them now.  I’ve got to save up a small fortune to afford it though.  Thanks again John!!
  • I got to video chat with Melanie and Shay.  I love them both so much! 
  • In fact, I got to video chat with a whole bunch of folks.  I twittered a Tokbox link and had about 6 or 7 folks just drop in to say hi.  Technology is awesome!
  • The world is such a great big place, but all the while it’s also very small.  More on this to come, I’m sure.
  • I had an incredible 3.5 days in Barbados, but I am so glad to be home with Mel, Shay and Bora!