There are a lot of good things in the world. There are also a lot of good things that you could be doing right now. But instead of spending every moment of your day attempting to do one more good thing, most of us are pretty content in finding hope and sacrifice in just a few great things… hopefully. It’s probably one reason I’ve pretty much abandoned this blog – it was just one more thing that isn’t high on my list of priorities.
In life and ministry, one of the hardest things to live and teach is the beauty of saying “no”. Unfortunately I’ve learned this lesson the hard way – and almost daily continue to struggle with this very thing. Honestly, there are a ton of great ministries to be a part of. There are plenty of missions and missionaries that need help. But we can only do so much. I’m sure I could spend every minute of the day in the office, planning an event each week; but ultimately I’d prefer to do a few things great.
The saddest part is the choice I see teenagers and families make almost every day. There is absolutely nothing wrong with sports, music, or any other extra-curricular activities – the question isn’t are these things good (because most likely they are), but are they great? Or an even better question, ‘Is this the best way for God to get glory from my life?’ What’s sad isn’t their choice to become active in many of these endeavors; the sad part is that they choose these things in spite of their walk with Christ.
Before I get labeled, let me quickly mention that this is not a blanket statement covering all students. There are many who leverage their influence and talents for God’s glory already – but the problem lies in the intention of involvement. Quite simply, sometimes the best thing a student can do to pursue Christ is to simply say “no” if it keeps them from growing with God and displaying His glory. In other words, if anyone is involved in an activity for any reason apart from using it for God, they need to say no. Especially when that activity they are choosing to be a part of limits their growth with other believers.
When we spread ourselves thin, not only are less effective at the things we are already involved in, but we limit ourselves from really experiencing greatness. Sometimes, “no” is all you need. Learn your limits and pick your priorities wisely.